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If you're reading this, chances are high that you've already spent some amount of time reading sex tips and tricks to use with your partner. Not to be corny, but: hi, you are your own best sex partner, which is why you landed here, on a list of ways to make your solo sex life the absolute best. Masturbation or masty time, if you will is a great way to unwind, treat yourself, learn more about your sexuality, and yes, improve your sex life , in general. It's maybe the most important sex you have no pressure. And yet, once you find a routine that works for you, it's far too easy to fall into a rut where each solo sesh is exactly the same. Nothing wrong with having a reliable move up your sleeve in a time crunch, but changing up the way you show yourself a li'l love might be the best thing you can do for your sex life. Here, sex experts and educators give their best advice on getting the most out of your solo time. Set a goal. Not to go all coach on you, but if you're looking to get something tangible from your masturbation time, figure out what that is, and commit yourself to getting it.
You liberated goddess! Sex education in the U. Only 17 states mandate that students be taught sex ed that is medically accurate, which means scientifically based. On top of this conundrum, schools aren't required to teach about pleasure. Everything is based in reproductive safety. While that is undeniably important information, there is more to sex than that.
Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body. Masturbation is a safe and natural way to feel good, discover what gets you hot, and release built-up sexual tension. Keep reading to learn more about masturbating with a vagina, how you can get started, and what you can do to really turn up the heat. Remember though: This will vary from person to person. Set the mood. Think about turning down the lights, lighting some candles, and listening to relaxing music to get the mood going. Add some lube. But sometimes, that may not be enough or it may not happen at all! So keep a tube of lube on hand to increase your pleasure.