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No woman would ever say that about me.
She wondered why they had ever taken such precautions before their wedding day. There had been constant worries about broken condoms and ineffective birth control pills as they dreaded the idea of having their carefully laid plans ruined by an unplanned baby. It was important for them to both keep working so they could save for the deposit for their new house in the suburbs. She also knew her parents would be horrified if they paid for a luxurious white wedding only for her to be waddling down the aisle with a huge baby bump ruining the lines of an expensive white bridal gown.
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I also write erotic shorts which I hope help women heal from bad relationship and envision what they really want and create it. I'm on the same page as you. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours. December 10, at 9: December 10, at 1: December 10, at 4: December 11, at 4: December 11, at 7: December 12, at 2: May God bless you.
Lots of really thorough replies. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. If you have children how will they be raised. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. My husband and I have been married for about 4 years and together since we were undergrads, before he chose medicine as his profession. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity.